Sometimes You Just Feel Like Saying *Mind Your Own Business* . . . . .

I just wonder why on earth can't people Mind their own work and move on.!!
It just happend sometime back..
A small incident from my surroundings. It was in my degree then.
Basically just on an overview it was nothing big, but the way it was portrayed made the whole scene look the other way which it was not.
Ok now not wasting much time let me tell you what had happend.

It was the Dec month and we were quiet excited as we were going on college trip finally in the 3rd year of my degree. A time to cherish all our life was coming our way, beacause we frends were going to enjoy for a whole 1 week.
O M G just imagine 1 week we were free to freak out just by ourselves with no interuption of parents asking you a 101 questions on anything for that matter..
and so dreaming about the trip finally the day of our departure came. We were 56 ppl from the batch including our guide + our lecturer. It was a night train that was booked from here to Cochin.
That day morning all the students were supposed to meet in the college to submit our Id cards for the ticket verification thing. Now there was this girl called Shravya whose incident i am going to tell now..and there was this guy Mr.X  who was a school frend of hers who happend to pass by her house that day before she left for college, he gave a call to her to see if she was @ home, though she told him not to come home but still that shameless creature directly crashed into her house to say hi hello bye to her as she was going for trip that evening..
Then she told him that she is going to college so they can meet some other time. This frend Mr.X agreed and they left for the college. But the problem came when the aunty staying below their house saw Shravya with this guy.
That evening nothing happend. Shravya never realised what was in store for her next.
Then 1 week we had had full fun. Cochin, Veega land - water sports, Kovalam, Madurai Meenakshi, Kodaikanal, Kanyakumari oh wow what a time that was.
We came back by the new year eve full happy enthu n all. . . .
Again the 1st 2 days after the return she did not realise that her parents were behaving somewat with her.

It was later in the 3rd evening she came to know about this change when her mom asked :
Mom - Beta who had come home that day when you wer leaving for trip ??
Shravya - Nobody Ma.
Mom - Dont lie. just try n remember who had come !!
Shravya - sure ma i dont think anybody came home.
Mom -  Are you sure ??
Shravya -  by now was thinking why are they asking me like this and who had come home n what was the scene altogether.
So, Then after giving some hard work to her brain she remembered about this frend who had dropped by and told her mom that Yes this guy had come home and I had forgot to tell you in that excitement of going for the trip that evening.
But then her mom wud not believe her because that evening the aunty who had seen Shravya going out with this guy had told shravyas mom a diffrent version of this scene as if the guy was her Boyfrend.!!
and so you can imagine about the scene in Shravyas house next.

and this made me wonder - what on earth was that ladys problem ??  coudnt she mind her own business and carry on her work.
what happiness do people get on putting spice to such normal things and making them a big item news for them to sit n enjoy the tension we have later is it ??
what was her headache if Shravya was going out with her frend. right ??  It wasnt that big deal for this lady. but still she had to poke her nose into others life n create a drama there.

But the impact it had gave such a mark in my life like the footprints on wet cement, that sometimes i get scared of talking to these auntys nowadays. who knows when what story will be cooked up against you..

Now dear frends dont you agree with my question that i started with !!
just feel like saying na -


If only people could talk "TO" one another than talking "ABOUT" one another, the world would have been a great place to live in.. right !!

what say ppl . . . . . Am i  right  :)

Comments

V.A James said…
Thats a simple soultion to a greater problem of gossiping, if you limit your words and talk wat makes sense you respect people and value their feelings. EARTH is the BEST place to live in thats y GOD put us on planet EARTH not on Planet PLUTO?? lets make this a better place do your bit.....

Thanks
V.A James

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